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Alice Goldbloom's avatar

I am happier than I expected to be. How wonderful for you to write that!!

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Jan Peppler's avatar

Thank you, Alice. Indeed!

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Valerie Monroe's avatar

So lovely, Jan. xo

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Jan Peppler's avatar

Thank you, Val!

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Cheryl A. Ossola's avatar

Beautiful, Jan. I’m so happy for you, finding this unexpected, easy contentment with your life. That you and Tom could be together yet separate, but now sharing space so easily, is a testimony to your love. Not every couple could do that. What a wonderful new phase of your life!

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Jan Peppler's avatar

Thank you, Cheryl. I think it is certainly a testament to knowing each other well, the way that only happens over time, and with admiration and respect 💜

Buona Pasqua! 🕊️🌷

Buona Primavera! 🌼

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Monica Nastase's avatar

What a beautiful, honest story! Happy Easter and resurrection, Jan!

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Jan Peppler's avatar

Thank you, Monica! And to you as well! 🕊️🌷

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Claudia A's avatar

A beautiful and amazing piece, Jan. Thank you! I am so happy for you and Tom, and renewed by the perspective you share here. Especially love the Jungian reference about outgrowing rather than solving problems. I have been trying to find the words to describe my life experiences as of late, and that’s it! As we shift our lens, some “problems” simply become irrelevant.

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Jan Peppler's avatar

Yes!! So glad to hear this resonates with you as well!

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Joan DeMartin's avatar

Lovely, Jan. I am so happy for you! I seem to be closing in on those feelings you describe myself...and starting new adventures. It helps to know your transition from single to married was easier than you expected and you are happier than expected. Yay!

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Jan Peppler's avatar

Oh!!! Yay for new adventures! We are always better for having taken risks and allowed ourselves love and play and joy! Thank you and sending wonderful wishes back at you!

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